We live in a selfish world where everyone seeks only their own fulfilment, happiness and satisfaction. Is it not as if everything revolves around our own person and everything and everyone should do everything in their power to meet our needs and needs?

Human sinful nature always demands. If you love me, do it! We are often deceived by the potential suffering of losing the person we love and we are ready to do what we don't really want to do, just to keep them close.

Let me tell you a painful truth. Better to suffer now as a result of a failed relationship than to suffer all your life from a ruined marriage or a marriage with someone who doesn't really love you. You'd better lose your lover now than lose your eternity by sinning towards your Creator.

Ask yourself the question: If I marry him/her, am I ready to do what he/she asks me to do, even if I disagree with it, and even if it is a sin against God?

After a night spent with her boyfriend, a young woman received the following message: “You are not the girl I hoped you would be. Last night together was a nightmare. You made me ashamed of myself. I could never marry you after everything that happened. I'm going to wonder my whole life if you're going to offer yourself to others, too. You've been the biggest disappointment of my life.”

Most premarital relationships end like this. If the intimate relationship is the condition for the continuity of a relationship, it is time to end it. Because true love “is not rude, it is not self-seeking” (1 Corinthians 13:5).